You in RL vs you online
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You in RL vs you online
I certainly find that I can express some aspects of my personality much more freely online than I tend to in real life. Of course, I may experience this particularly strongly as I'm still a bit reversed in RL, even after all the progress I've made in overcoming my extreme introversion of childhood.
"If you can't take a little bloody nose, maybe you ought to go back home and crawl under your bed. It's not safe out here. It's wonderous, with treasures to satiate desires both subtle and gross... but it's not for the timid." Q, Q Who
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Re: You in RL vs you online
I am... essentially the same online as in RL. I can be blunt in RL, and am usually honest about my feelings.
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Online, I tend to be more polite and diplomatic for some reason while I'm asserting myself for some reason. Maybe because I have the time to think while typing. In RL, I tend to be a little to blunt and to the point. And in real life, I have a REAL WEAKNESS for women. Again, online it's not that bad for some reason.
God, that sounds corney, huh?
God, that sounds corney, huh?
They say that in the Army,
the women are mighty fine.
They look like Phyllis Diller,
and walk like Frankenstein.
the women are mighty fine.
They look like Phyllis Diller,
and walk like Frankenstein.
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Re: You in RL vs you online
Ah, but are you as...talkative in RL?Mark wrote:Online, I tend to be more polite and diplomatic for some reason while I'm asserting myself for some reason. Maybe because I have the time to think while typing. In RL, I tend to be a little to blunt and to the point. And in real life, I have a REAL WEAKNESS for women. Again, online it's not that bad for some reason.
God, that sounds corney, huh?
"If you can't take a little bloody nose, maybe you ought to go back home and crawl under your bed. It's not safe out here. It's wonderous, with treasures to satiate desires both subtle and gross... but it's not for the timid." Q, Q Who
Re: You in RL vs you online
Yep. That I am. I got over being shy and bashful in high school, thanks to drugs. The only positive I can take away from the experience. So, I can walk up and talk to anybody pretty much about anything
Big surprise, huh?
Big surprise, huh?
They say that in the Army,
the women are mighty fine.
They look like Phyllis Diller,
and walk like Frankenstein.
the women are mighty fine.
They look like Phyllis Diller,
and walk like Frankenstein.
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At least you were able to find a silver lining, Mark. Kudos to you there, dude.
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Yes, Kudos.
In RL, I'm shy, afraid of a fight, eager to make people laugh, lazy, and not terribly masculine.
In RL, I'm shy, afraid of a fight, eager to make people laugh, lazy, and not terribly masculine.
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I'm almost exactly the same. See link
I get no joy from pretending to be someone else, and nearly anything I'd say here is what I'd say face-to-face. I hold back a bit online because, well, people can see what we write.
I get no joy from pretending to be someone else, and nearly anything I'd say here is what I'd say face-to-face. I hold back a bit online because, well, people can see what we write.
There is only one way of avoiding the war – that is the overthrow of this society. However, as we are too weak for this task, the war is inevitable. -L. Trotsky, 1939
Re: You in RL vs you online
I tend to be a bit of a yes-man both in RL and here. I can see where that might get annoying sometimes, so I thought I'd mention it.
"I have nothing to say, I am saying it, and that is poetry."
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Is that right, lieutenant?Grundig wrote:I tend to be a bit of a yes-man both in RL and here. I can see where that might get annoying sometimes, so I thought I'd mention it.
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There's nothing wrong with being diplomatic, but avoiding confrontations altogether gets you nowhere.Grundig wrote:I tend to be a bit of a yes-man both in RL and here. I can see where that might get annoying sometimes, so I thought I'd mention it.
BE MORE ASSERTIVE!
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Re: You in RL vs you online
I tend to be generally the same, although I am actually more sarcastic, tongue-in-cheek, and dry in RL because I know I can convey my intent as joking through body cues and vocal inflection.
I can't stand nothing dull
I got the high gloss luster
I'll massacre your ass as fast
as Bull offed Custer
I got the high gloss luster
I'll massacre your ass as fast
as Bull offed Custer
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Alright, alright. If you say so.
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I can't stand nothing dull
I got the high gloss luster
I'll massacre your ass as fast
as Bull offed Custer
I got the high gloss luster
I'll massacre your ass as fast
as Bull offed Custer
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Re: You in RL vs you online
Me in real life is exactly the same as me online. I'm quite straight forward like that.
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