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Tsukiyumi wrote:Oddly enough, I've been dumped for being "too nice" several times. Clearly, I've changed my modus operandi.

I've dumped girls for being to nice. It get old real fast.

Teaos wrote:I've dumped girls for being to nice. It get old real fast.

I don't comprehend that attitude. Nice is a huge plus in a person's character, for me.

Of course... I may mean a different thing by nice than you do.

We may be talking about different levels of niceness. I like it when a girl is nice and polite and not a bitch.

I dont like it when they say "Oh what ever you want" when I ask them what they want. I dont like it when they let people walk all over them just to make them happy.

I dont like it when they sacrifice their own happiness to make other happy.

I dont like a girl who cant say no to anyone.

Teaos wrote:We may be talking about different levels of niceness. I like it when a girl is nice and polite and not a bitch.

I dont like it when they say "Oh what ever you want" when I ask them what they want. I dont like it when they let people walk all over them just to make them happy.

Hmm, yes, we do mean different things. let's just say that a girl like that would not be one I would be interested in.

Teaos wrote:I dont like it when they say "Oh what ever you want" when I ask them what they want. I dont like it when they let people walk all over them just to make them happy.

I dont like it when they sacrifice their own happiness to make other happy.

I dont like a girl who cant say no to anyone.

That's not "being nice". That's being a sycophantic idiot.

It's also generally overcompensating.

Who - or as my instinct screams, WHAT - is F.R.AN.?

GrahamKennedy wrote:

Teaos wrote:We may be talking about different levels of niceness. I like it when a girl is nice and polite and not a bitch.

I dont like it when they say "Oh what ever you want" when I ask them what they want. I dont like it when they let people walk all over them just to make them happy.

Hmm, yes, we do mean different things. let's just say that a girl like that would not be one I would be interested in.

Well, that's one less guy I have to worry about.

You know he meant "walk all over" in the figurative sense, right?

Mikey wrote:You know he meant "walk all over" in the figurative sense, right?

Ya. My gf has said she's happy from making me happy. I'm trying to help her expand on that, but she has...issues. Mostly from one of her ex's virtually stalking her despite the fact that he's been told he should leave her alone by her, me, his own friends, and a judge. And he's the one who dumped her.

A taser to the balls should get the point across.