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I'm a tad young to have had sex. I at least want to make 14 before i discard that wholesome virginity.

Nothing wrong with waiting 'till you find the right guy.

Quite right. I've always said i will know when its time. It could be when i am 30, it could be in 5 weeks time.

5 weeks from now might still be a tad early to be sure. [/father mode]

Keep in mind, Reliant, that isn't something that you can take back doing later if you change your mind. (Father mode as well) I'll share something that I was told early on. If you want to "play" around (to mean anything other than intercourse) fine, but before crossing the line of no return, be sure it's something that "YOU" really want for yourself, not something somebody else wants who you may want to make happy by doing so.

I will now return to my regularly scheduled, goofball self.

It might be early. It solely depends on what happens. If i'm not comfortable with it, then they can f*ck off. I'm alot stronger than most think i am when i need to be(although Adam overpowered me when trying to tickle me last night)

I'll know. If i dont want to, i wont. If i do, i will.

Reliant121 wrote:It might be early. It solely depends on what happens. If i'm not comfortable with it, then they can f*ck off. I'm alot stronger than most think i am when i need to be(although Adam overpowered me when trying to tickle me last night)

I'll know. If i dont want to, i wont. If i do, i will.

Well said. I'll just reiterate someone else's caveat to not confuse a desire to accomodate or to be accepted with your own personal readiness. I'm not trying to be condescending, because recognizing that difference can be more difficult than it sounds.

I'll promise to keep my whits bout me. and try to keep with my own decision making.

Good man.