RK_Striker_JK_5 wrote:happy nuptials, Lighthawk.
Thank ya
Did I mention it's not October? because it's not.
I must say then, this is the longest September I've ever known.
Tsukiyumi wrote:Does it involve ties? Then it's fancy.
Unfortunately it does. I'm not a fan of ties, it's like being strangled by a really weak guy all day long.
Mark wrote:Heh, my wedding was a Japaneese Tenrikio ceremony. Not ONLY did my brother in law stay by my side to keep me from collapsing in fear OR running away and leaving his sister at the alter, I didn't understand two words of the ceremony, EXCEPT with the minister (who was dressed like a Samurai minus the swords) talked to me in English. In that particular ceremony its traditional for both the bride and groom to take three sips of Saki each. Nobody TOLD me this, and taking my natural inclinations as well as abject terror into account, they handed me the drink and I thought it was for my nerves. I downed the entire cup.
I still get crap about that.
Heh. That sounds really cool, aside from the whole not knowing what the hell is going on bit. They couldn't have gotten you a translator?
Uzume wrote: That's funny Mark.
Hey Lighthawk, don't worry, it's like Mikey said, it would be really odd if you weren't nervous. You've chosen to start a new chapter of your life with a partner. Now all of your decisions have a great impact on not only you, but also the one you love. Everything will be fine, trust me, she is just as nervous. After all of the preparations, and all of the head-ache, you and your new wife get to leave first.
We'll get the illusion of leaving first...we chose for some reason to stop by the door to thank people for coming as they leave. It'll be like "So close..."
P.S. I swatted Tzu for ya.
You're too kind. Thanks.
Mikey wrote:Lighthawk - you're obviously aware of the three rings of marriage? The engagement ring, the wedding ring, and the suffer-ring...
Haven't actually heard that one before...nice.
I kid. There's nothing I can tell you to make you less nervous, but I can tell you that it would be odd if you weren't. I did find a trick that helped, though - I started drinking at about 9:00 am the day of my wedding. A lot.
Interesting idea...no idea how that would work for me, as I don't drink...at all.